It's never as bad as it seems... I know this sounds like rhetoric, but there is always a way out. First things first. Talk to a credit counsellor and talk to your debtors, a lot of times they will lend you some slack if they know that you have a plan to get out of debt... (It's win-win because in the long run it gets them more money). A credit counsellor can help you find ways to ease the payments you are making.
In terms of paying down your debts, (Start with the debt with the highest interest rate and pay that down first, make only the minimum payments if that is all you can afford.... Then put the money that you were paying on the first debt and apply that plus any extra money that you can toward the next highest debt... continue the cycle till all debts are paid... Then put the money that you were using to pay down debts aside in a high interest account to accumulate interest and bolster your savings. It's a three phase approach that works... Don't loose hope.
Finally, look at EVERYTHING you are spending... Keep track of EVERYTHING you purchase and account for it down to the cent. Look at your purchases over the month and see what you can do without. (Believe me there are a lot of things that anybody can eliminate from their spending providing they are honest with themselves and their partner and look hard enough). Repeat each month until you find yourself having to justify your purchases. This will help you eliminate unnecessary debt and getting yourself further into debt.
I know it sounds like a lot, but take it in little steps and it will work I promise!
